Sorority Recruitment Survival Tips
Sorority recruitment has already started and people are buzzing! About 40% of Tulane students are involved in Greek life, and recruitment for both IFC fraternities and Panhel sororities take place at the beginning of second semester. At Tulane, we have 8 Panhellenic Council sororities, and luckily, recruitment gives you the opportunity to experience and get to know all of them at least once. While some people may be worried or freaking out, I've compiled 10 do's and don't's to guide you through:
1. Don't be nervous!
The whole point of recruitment is for everyone to get to know each other. While other schools may have a more rigorous process, Tulane Panhel makes sure that everyone has a comfortable, respectful and enjoyable experience. Once you get through a few events at different houses, you'll realize there's no need to be really worried and can try to just enjoy the process.
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Alpha Delta Pi (ADPi) |
2. Have an open mind
While some people may have preconceived notions about certain houses, it is essential to keep an open mind going in to recruitment so you don't limit any opportunities. Try and base all of your options on the conversations and experiences you have in each house rather than focus on external rumors, gossip, etc!
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Alpha Epsilon Phi (AEPhi) |
3. Be kind to everyone
The days are long - for PNMs (Potential New Members, aka women going through the recruitment process) as well as members of each house. It is easy to get tired and less excited as the day goes on, but remember to stay as positive and nice to everyone as possible, even if you're in a house that isn't your first choice.
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Chi Omega (Chi O) |
4. Wear comfortable clothing
I remember my freshman year during recruitment as I, along with everyone else on my floor, carefully picked out each part of my outfit for each day of recruitment. I focused way too much on the color of my necklace and too little on the actual comfort of my clothing. Again, the days are long and you have to walk between houses in limited time. I can't stress this enough -- wear comfortable clothing, ESPECIALLY shoes! If you're going to wear heels, make sure you can walk and stand in them comfortably and easily (I have to admit, I definitely fell twice during recruitment in heels - not fun).
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Kappa Alpha Theta (Theta) |
5. Try to have personal, meaningful conversations
If you just talk about your major and dorm in every event and every house, it'll be hard to get a good reading of the community within each sorority. While you'll cover all the basics within the first five minutes, try to ask more personal questions about the sorority such as their philanthropies and their sisterhood. Obviously everyone loves mixers and cool themed parties, but you want to be comfortable with the actual sisterhood before you can focus on other activities. I always asked the sisters about their favorite events and why they chose their house in order to get a better sense of what each house was really like, and it really gave me great insight on each community.
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Kappa Kappa Gamma (Kappa) |
6. Be mindful of yourself in the week in between events
Although asked not to, many PNMs choose to go out during the week between Open House/Philanthropy and Sisterhood/Preference. I really recommend against going out - it's awkward running into older girls that you can't talk to. However, if you do decide to go out, be extremely mindful of the way you hold yourself -- you want to present the best version of yourself possible! Moreover, as much as you may want to, don't try to contact your older friends in sororities. Respect the recruitment process: go out to dinner, get froyo, have a movie night in, but avoid the Boot and Palms!
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Phi Mu |
7. Take this experience as an opportunity to bond with other freshmen
You're all going through this at the same time - why not chat, bond, and get to know each other? You'll not only get closer with the girls on your floor, but also the girls in your recruitment group who you'll spend each day with. Remember to respect everyone's decisions and opinions, and to support each other. Taking the time to bond with each other will only make it more exciting to see more friendly faces on bid day!
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Pi Beta Phi (Pi Phi) |
8. Make your own decisions and opinions
I went through recruitment with my closest group of friends and we all ended up in different houses. Joining a sorority won't change your friendships; it'll only add new ones! While some parts of recruitment may be disappointing, try not to compare yourself to the choices your friends make or the houses they get invited back to. Focus on your own feelings and decide where you see yourself fitting in best, even if it's not the same choice as your roommate. This is another time when it's important to support one another through the ups and downs so that everyone has the best experience possible.
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Sigma Delta Tau (SDT)
9 + 10. Everything happens for a reason and get excited!!Remember, it is a mutual selection process. Bid day (see all above pictures) is a wonderful, fun day that everyone should be excited for! No matter which house you end up in, keep an open mind, meet as many people as possible and get ready for an amazing experience! Happy recruitment!
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